Find Your Tribe – Finding Your Spark

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You don’t have to carry it alone. Welcome to Find Your Tribe – Find Your Spark.

Live, evening online support circles for Kiwis navigating life’s challenges. Safe, vetted, private, and capped at the cost of a pie and a coke ($10).

 100% Secure & Vetted Room Environment


Our Philosophy

When you are navigating isolation or feeling disconnected, the world can feel incredibly loud yet totally out of reach. Standard support can feel clinical and intimidating. You don’t need a waiting room or a diagnosis—you just need a space where you can show up without a mask and talk to people who get it.

The Spark Tribe is built on a simple truth: you aren’t empty, and you don’t need to be “fixed.” Everyone has a spark inside them; sometimes the cold fog of isolation just dampens it. This group is about 60-minutes to reset your headspace and to break the isolation cycle. Just log on, sit in the warmth of genuine human connection, and reignite your energy for the week ahead.

Find Your Tribe Live was born out of a simple Kiwi truth: human connection heals. We host structured, facilitated evening video groups where people dealing with similar life experiences can gather, talk, listen, and belong. We aren’t here to diagnose you or give you a clinical assessment. We are here to help you find your people or find your spark.

The “Pie and a Coke” Pricing Rule

We charge a flat fee of $10 per session (cheaper than the cost of a pie and a coke!). This acts as an immediate safety barrier—internet trolls and malicious actors will not put their real financial names into a paid system just to disrupt a meeting.

Circles & Schedule

  • When: Tuesdays & Wednesdays starting at 10.30am, and/or 6.30pm (60 minutes)
  • Format: Relaxed video connection circle. Camera-on policy so we can all see the friendly faces in the room.
  • The Cost: $10 per session. Charged purely to keep automated internet trolls and malicious actors out of our community space.

The Ironclad Safety Protocol

Because we handle highly sensitive topics, our privacy frameworks are rigorous and non-negotiable:

  • Mandatory ID Verification: Every member must upload an NZ ID or verify via an active social profile before receiving a video link. Unverified accounts are blocked.
  • Strict Camera-On Policy: No anonymous “black screens” are allowed. Everyone must show their face to protect the vulnerability of those sharing in the room.
  • Pseudonym Protection: While we verify your real identity behind the scenes, you are encouraged to use a display pseudonym on screen to protect your privacy from other members.
  • Zero Legal Advice: Our rooms provide peer connection, not legal strategies. We focus strictly on emotional fortification and community support.
  • No recording: Every member must not record any part of the tribes online sharing of information.

6. Registration Form

 Important Registration Note: We open registration for one week at a time to ensure spots go to those who need them right now. Once a group hits its maximum cap, the registration form will automatically close until the following week.

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Disclaimer: Find Your Tribe Live is a peer-to-peer connection and community platform. Our facilitators function as supportive community hosts, not registered clinical psychologists, crisis counselors, or legal practitioners. These circles are designed to build belonging and clear the fog of isolation; they are not a substitute for professional mental health intervention, psychiatric treatment, or formal legal counsel. If you are in immediate physical danger, experiencing an acute mental health emergency, or need tactical security assistance, please disconnect immediately and call 111.