Find Your Tribe

You don’t have to carry it alone. Find Your Tribe.

Live, evening online support circles for Kiwis navigating life’s challenges. Safe, vetted, private, and capped at the cost of a pie and a coke ($10).

🔒 100% Secure & Vetted Room Environment

Our Philosophy

When you are dealing with a heavy life transition, navigating isolation, or recovering from trauma, the standard 9-to-5 world can feel entirely out of reach. Worse, traditional support services can sometimes feel sterile, clinical, and intimidating. You don’t need a waiting room; you need people who just get it.

Find Your Tribe Live was born out of a simple Kiwi truth: human connection heals. We host structured, facilitated evening video groups where people dealing with similar life experiences can gather, talk, listen, and belong. We aren’t here to diagnose you or give you a clinical assessment. We are here to help you find your people.

3. The “Pie and a Coke” Pricing Rule

We charge a flat fee of $10 per session (cheaper than the cost of a pie and a coke!). This acts as an immediate safety barrier—internet trolls and malicious actors will not put their real financial names into a paid system just to disrupt a meeting.

4. Evening Circles & Schedule

Group Name & Focus	Evening & Time (NZST)	Format & Capping
Find Your Tribe: A reality check to the grown-up adult world. Stripping back the noise and societal expectations to give youth a raw, honest look at navigating life, identity, and the transition into adulthood. Strictly capped at 8 participants.	Mondays 6:30 PM – 7:30 PM	Strictly capped at 8 participants. Highly structured, interactive activities and facilitated chat.
Struggling Solo. For parents and caregivers carrying the heavy emotional load of raising teens. A space to reclaim your maternal leadership, set firm boundaries, and take back control of your home. Strictly capped at 10 participants.	Mondays 8:00 PM – 9:15 PM	Capped at 8 participants. Open sharing, boundary-building focus, and resource swapping.
A quick headspace reset. For those feeling isolated, lonely, or disconnected. Everyone has a spark inside them; this low-pressure, high-warmth hour is simply about breaking the isolation cycle to help you reignite yours. Strictly capped at 12 participants.	Tuesdays 8:00 PM – 9:15 PM	Strictly capped at 8 participants. High-security threshold, mandatory 5-minute pre-screening call.

5. The Ironclad Safety Protocol

Because we handle highly sensitive topics, our privacy frameworks are rigorous and non-negotiable:

Mandatory ID Verification: Every member must upload an NZ ID or verify via an active social profile before receiving a video link. Unverified accounts are blocked.
Strict Camera-On Policy: No anonymous “black screens” are allowed. Everyone must show their face to protect the vulnerability of those sharing in the room.
Pseudonym Protection: While we verify your real identity behind the scenes, you are encouraged to use a display pseudonym on screen to protect your privacy from other members.
Zero Legal Advice: Our rooms provide peer connection, not legal strategies. We focus strictly on emotional fortification and community support.
No recording: Every member must not record any part of the tribes online sharing of information.

6. Registration Form

📌 Important Registration Note: We open registration for one week at a time to ensure spots go to those who need them right now. Once a group hits its maximum cap, the registration form will automatically close until the following week.

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Discreet Statement Billing Guarantee: To ensure safety from monitoring partners, transactions processed through our gateway will never display “Family Violence,” “Support Group,” or “Loneliness.” All registrations appear on your bank statements anonymously as “FYT MEDIA ONLINE” or “FYT NET NZ”.

Disclaimer: Find Your Tribe Live is a peer-to-peer connection and community platform. Our facilitators function as supportive community hosts, not registered clinical psychologists, crisis counselors, or legal practitioners. These circles are designed to build belonging and clear the fog of isolation; they are not a substitute for professional mental health intervention, psychiatric treatment, or formal legal counsel. If you are in immediate physical danger, experiencing an acute mental health emergency, or need tactical security assistance, please disconnect immediately and call 111.